In this video I keep with my topic about how to change your life effortlessly. Today I'm giving you good relationship habits you can't go without. There are 6 of them, and they will lay foundation for good relationships. I suggest you write them down on a pice of paper as a sort of check list, and go through them on a daily basis at first, till they become automatic. Then you don't have to worry about them any more.
As I mention in the video, working on yourself, in a way of understanding your place , purpose, and direction in this life, is a very good preparation for good relationships. That way you can be intentional about your relationships, set goals for your relationships, and invite only people you want on your journey to join you.
But we all know that real life is much messier, often confusing, frustrating, annoying and more. What we need is lay relationship foundations we are going to use daily, regardless of whether we are starting a relationship or looking for one, or we are in a middle of a relationship that is maybe not satisfactory, or maybe we don't know whether it's even good for us - shall we stay or leave. We might be in good one as it is, great, but never stop improving and working on it. Occasionally check against the 6 good relationship habits to see whether you are applying them properly, or you are maybe missing something that might come back to bite you.
Finally, here they are (in no particular order):
1. never doubt good intention;
2. don't criticize, be curious instead;
3. keep communication open;
4. don't threaten in a relationship;
5. always connect before correcting;
6. stay genuine in any situation.
We could of course come up with more, but these are more than enough for your foundations. Check up on them regularly.
And while we are on the topic, be pragmatic about your relationships. Ask yourself often whether they are benefiting you, are you better off being in this particular relationship. If not, you might consider getting out very seriously. (and take action)
This is already my second video on the topic of relationships. As it's such a vast area, I will cover relationships and their varieties more in the coming videos. Stay tuned. You could subscribe to my channel Di's Affiliate Hub, by clicking on the subscribe button under the video, or go here:
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